Becoming a widow after being in a loving marriage and relationship for 34 years was something I could not even wrap my mind around. From early on in George and I’s relationship and through the many years of our marriage we were team. This we found was how we worked best. We valued each others opinions and sought them in the thought process of the many decisions that came along in our life. Although often one of us would usually say ‘You choose I am fine with what ever”. I believe this happened because we knew each other so well and trusted each other. So the decision to send Kit off to college after George’s passing and Kit be given the opportunity to study what he loved was something I didn’t even have to wonder what I needed to do. This May after 4 1/2 years of dedication from Kit and heartfelt help to us both from family and friends Kit will receive his Bachelor of Arts in Digital Arts and Animation: Entertainment Design from Cogswell Technical College in San Jose California. Kits further education was my first long term goal as a single parent. I realize the degree is an important accomplishment for Kit and I but equally is all we have learned alone the way… We are now stronger and full of Hope for the future. I am very proud of you Kit Ainslie. LOVE MOM….